Your Thoughts May Be Sabotaging You
By now, just about everyone on a spiritual path is probably familiar with the concept that our thoughts create our reality. We have learned that whatever we focus our minds on will expand until it materializes in the physical world. So it stands to reason that is should be easy for all of us (or at least those of us who know this Universal law), to live in a perpetual state of joy, health, love, and abundance, right? Not so fast.
Our thoughts create with the energy we send out while we are thinking them. When we think positive thoughts, we attract experiences that match the high energy frequency we are transmitting. Similarly, when we think negative thoughts, we are attracting from a low energy frequency. Obviously, the key is to pay attention to our thoughts, and only entertain those that will create our desired outcomes.
“A man cannot directly choose his circumstances, but he can choose his thoughts, and so indirectly, yet surely, shape his circumstances.” ~ James Allen
However, not all thoughts are black and white; some fall into a grey area and are not easy to identify. These seemingly insignificant thoughts slip through our consciousness all day long, disguised as trivial musings; harmless notions; meaningless introspections. Many of them appear to be neutral, but are rooted in worry, lack, or some other type of fear. We hardly notice them at all as they float through our heads, so we make no effort to change them. Then we wonder why things are not working out as we would like.
Please understand that there are no neutral thoughts. As stated before, all thoughts carry some kind of energy, and many that appear to be inconsequential or unimportant have negative energy attached to them. And although you might not be aware of it, you are projecting that energy into the Universe every time you think them. These thoughts then shape your present reality.
For example, a person who has been longing for some time to live in a nicer dwelling might have the thought “Someday I’ll be able to afford a beautiful home” while thumbing through the pages of a decorating magazine. This thought carries with it an energy of lack, and they have now indefinitely delayed having their beautiful home. Similarly, an employee who is trying to impress a demanding boss might think “I really hope he likes the report I did”. This worry-based thought has now opened up infinite opportunities for his boss to not like the report at all.
“In your hands will be placed the exact results of your thoughts; you will receive that which you earn, no more, no less. Whatever your present environment may be, you will fail, remain, or rise with your thoughts, your wisdom, desire, as great as your dominant aspiration.” ~ James Allen
Although these thoughts may seem like innocuous observations on the part of the thinker, they have the power to create undesired outcomes. Had she been paying closer attention, our home-seeker could have changed her thought to: “These decorating ideas will work great in my dream house.”, creating a more favorable flow of energy. And our earnest employee might have made a simple adjustment to: “This is some of my best work; I feel proud to hand this in.”, thereby projecting those same feelings onto his boss. In both cases, simply being aware of the thoughts would have allowed the thinker to redirect them to a higher frequency and ultimately, a better result.
Contrary to popular belief, our reality does not depend on circumstances, people, or anything outside of our minds. We have the power to shape each life experience that comes our way with our own thoughts. Even when a situation appears negative, we can gently guide it towards a more positive conclusion. Understanding the subtleties of our thoughts helps us to remain aware of our what we are thinking at all times, and pay our due respects to the power they have on our lives.